Wholesome Intimacy is privately owned and operated providing a safe and non-judgmental environment filled with God’s grace so healing and transformation can occur.


We help individuals develop awareness and skills to resolve relationship challenges and conflicts, overcome the impact of marital infidelity, and address sexual issues such as sexual dysfunctions, sexual trauma, and pornography addiction.


Specializes in providing pre-martial counseling, individual and group therapy addressing depression, anxiety, anger, PTSD, fear, low self-esteem and workplace relations. We also provide consultations and educational services.


We are driven by a God-given passion to see transformation, restoration and renewal in our societies through changing one person, one marriage and one family at a time. We believe that there is no problem beyond God’s reach and ability to resolve and to heal.


Learn more about our qualified team members.

Lila Stephenson

Ph.D., MA, Licensed Professional Counselor

Certified  Sex Therapist

Marvin Stephenson

Licensed Minister, Certified Covenant Lovers Instructor (CASE),

Marriage Mentor

View Dr. Lila's Bio
View Minister Marvin's Bio

Couples Counseled
Healed Hearts
Spirit Filled Conversations
Rekindled Relationships


Wholesome Intimacy provides therapy from a holistic approach. Consistent with solid biblical teachings we take into consideration that our clients are multifaceted beings, comprising the spirit, soul, body and mind. We therefore recognize and respect the biological, emotional, physical, cultural and spiritual aspects as well as the unique personality factors that make up each individual, couple and family. We believe every individual was fashioned by God with an inbred desire for vertical relationship with Him and laterally with others. We all yearn for relationships in which we are loved, accepted and understood. Such quality relationships do not “just” happen. They required intentionality and purposeful engagement of individuals with honest, open and sincere hearts. We believe the wellness of an individual, a couple or a family hinges upon an individual’s ability to purely and authentically CONNECT with themselves, God and others.

Our Values



We believe that prayer is an effective solution to situations that you find overwhelming. The bible encourages us to bring all of our cares to God who can give us wisdom, comfort and peace.


“Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them that they should always pray and not give up.” (Luke 18:1)

The Word Of God


We believe that the Word of God is effective in healing for the whole person—mind, soul and spirit. We believe it is effective in providing clarity for our problems and bringing healing and full integration to us and in our relationships.


“For the word of God is living and active and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart.” Hebrews 4:12


“He sent His word and healed them, And delivered them from their destructions.”(Psalm 107:20)

Godly Wisdom


We believe that God can provide us with wisdom to address any problem in life. God’s wisdom has no hidden agendas and is therefore trustworthy. It comes with many benefits that are transferrable to all of our relationships.


“But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, unwavering, without hypocrisy.” (James 3:17)



We believe that compassion are the foundational tenets of our therapeutic relationship. We realize that clients come to us with a great deal of vulnerability and concern from the pressures of life and in our relationships. Our response is to create a safe and meaningful collaboration to facilitate your progress of moving towards a healthy well-functioning place.


The LORD was moved with compassion by their groaning that had been caused by those who were oppressing and persecuting them.” Judges 2:18


Transformational Thinking


We believe that it is possible to think differently about your situation and to see positive results from such.


“…be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2)”

Connecting or Support Systems


We believe that God has appointed the family as the primary and most significant place for security and healing. We realize that while many of us are hurt in relationships it is also the place where healing must begin. Family extends beyond biological….into those relationships into our churches and community.


“God makes a home for the lonely;” (Psalm 68:6)



We believe that knowledge is empowering. Our support groups, workshops and seminars are designed with simplicity to educate and to inspire fresh healthy perspectives and behaviors.


“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.” Hosea 4:6

Integrity and Truth


We believe that our highest standard of truth is alignment with the word of God that challenges us to inner truth and guides to truth through the agency of the Spirit of God. We also abide by the standards of honesty and integrity as in keeping with our professional code of ethics and regulations.


“Surely you desire truth in the inner parts; you teach me wisdom in the inmost place.”(Psalm 51:6).




Past trauma, depression, anxiety, loneliness, fears, pornography addiction, sexual issues, sexual dysfunctions, relationship loss, low self-esteem, and unforgiveness are matters that can derail you and impede your connection with God, self and others. For many individuals the decision to seek or call a counselor is a courageous start to a journey of healing.


Let us partner with you to navigate to a place of healthy emotional connections with the most significant relationships in your life. We can help!


Marriage Preparation Coaching Classes

Are you preparing for a wedding or a lifetime of commitment and companionship? As you focus on your bridal attire will you be adequately attired for your marriage? Are you interested in discovering the strengths and growth areas in your relationship with your new spouse?


Our marriage preparation workshops and couples therapy give you the opportunity to invest in one of the most valuable relationship you will ever experience in life. You will gain the tools and skills to prepare you not just for a day—but a lifetime of wholesome and intimate connection.


Marriage Revitalization

Does your marriage feel as if it has lost all vitality? Are you feeling lonely even with your spouse nearby? Does your marriage feel like a roommate arrangement? Do you and your spouse find it difficult to talk about meaningful things and constantly argue about small things? Have your marriage been infected by the disease of infidelity? Do you want to learn how to rebuild trust? Have you been disconnected spiritually, emotionally or sexually from your spouse? Does your marriage need rejuvenation/restoration? Are you willing to let your pain be the catalyst for purpose and transformation in your marriage?


Our specialized training along with your commitment will help you navigate through the difficult terrain of marital conflict and dissatisfaction—to begin the process of healing and restoration. You can experience a purposeful, meaningful and gratifying marriage with authentic and refreshing connections of the spirit, heart, mind, body and soul.


Improve your skills and awareness in:
  • Marital Communication
  • Spirituality and Values
  • Sexual Intimacy
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Personal and Marital Stressors
  • Parenting
  • Family Interaction Patterns
  • Finances (Referrals e.g. FPU/Dave Ramsey)
  • Seasons and Stages of Marriage
  • Roles and Responsibilities
  • Personality Profiles
  • STEP – families


Christian Sex Therapy

Wholesome Intimacy provides a safe Christian environment for couples and individual to discuss their sexual issues with a professionally trained individual.


Christian Sex Therapy (CST) grants couples/individuals the opportunity to explore sexuality, enhance sexual pleasure and physical response and to resolve sexual conflicts. Couples can obtain effective relational skills that lead to sexual fulfillment and improved intimacy in their marriage.


CST also helps couples address issues of various sexual dysfunctions:
  • Low or excessive sexual desire
  • Difficulties maintaining or feeling aroused
  • Avoidance of sex
  • Painful sex
  • Anxiety related to sex


Our approach caters to both premarital and marital couples guiding, training and retraining in how to communicate healthy sexual and non-sexual behaviors.

Group Therapy

Relationships can hurt us! Relationships can heal us! It is through our connection with people that pain can result and it is through connection with healthy people God can bring healing.

Therapeutic and Support groups

are designed to provide a safe, non-judgmental environment where you can share common experiences and concerns. Participants come together to provide mutual encouragement, emotional support and an exchange of ideas and coping strategies. It is an ideal environment to confront pain, isolation, guilt and shame and to realize you are not alone in your discomfort.


Group therapy continuously models empathy, creation of boundaries, respect and acceptance and allows individuals to learn healthy interaction and relational skills. The acquired skills often transcend the therapeutic group setting into helping individuals cultivate healthy relationships in other arenas in their life.

Educational groups are designed to assist individuals in broadening their understanding on a specific issue or area of concern. The focus is more instructive and informational, coaching, sound practical biblical instructions and interaction with facilitator and participants. Education groups are not therapy groups.

We offer the following groups, seminars and workshops through the year. Our education groups are typically a 4-10 weeks, meeting once a week for 90 minutes.


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Blogs & Vlogs!

Read/view our blogs, vlogs, or listen to our audio sessions providing tips and information on related topics.

Do you love me? Do you love me? Do you love me?

Do you love me? Do you love me? Do you love me?

Have you ever badgered your spouse repeatedly with the question, “Do you love me?” Well I am so guilty of what we commonly referred to as “nagging.” Most men consider a previous affirmation of love to be enough to last a lifetime and subsequent questioning to be annoying. Not so with the ladies. They will ask several times a day. But I wonder if the ladies—myself included—really know the reason why they persist with this question.


Enjoying Wholesome Intimacy- (Sex in the Christian Marriage Broadcast)

Enjoying Wholesome Intimacy- (Sex in the Christian Marriage Broadcast)

Click Here to Listen to Rethinking How We Think About Sex-Addressing Sexual Myths

Click Here to Listen to A Lady and Her Sexuality

Click Here to Listen to Reclaiming Intimacy-Pt. 1

Click Here to Listen to Reclaiming Intimacy- Pt.2

Click Here to Listen to Broadcast on Pornography

Click Here to Listen to Consciously Connecting

Click Here to Listen to The Beauty of Matured Love

Click Here to Listen to LoveMaking After 50!

Tell Me the Biblical Reasons For Leaving My Spouse

Tell Me the Biblical Reasons For Leaving My Spouse

As I sat in a hair salon recently  the conversation by the chatty and vociferous ladies turned to marriage. On hearing that I was a Marriage Coach, one lady asked, “What are the reasons the Bible gives for leaving my husband?” I paused for a moment, knowing that I needed to give a delicate but wise response. Finally I proposed, “While there certainly are biblical reasons for leaving a spouse there are a whole lot more reasons to stay.” The conversation quietened.


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600 Strada Circle, Mansfield, TX 76063


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